• by Michele Borba
  • Narrated by Cassandra Campbell
  • 8 hrs and 22 mins
  • Unabridged Audiobook

Publisher's Summary

Best-selling author Michele Borba offers a nine-step program to help parents cultivate empathy in children, from birth to young adulthood - and explains why developing a healthy sense of empathy is a key predictor of which kids will thrive and succeed in the future.
In our hyperconnected, social-media-saturated society, many of us (especially young people) are so obsessed with snapping "selfies" and living virtual lives online that we're forgetting how to care for the people right in front of us IRL (that's "in real life"). The resulting Selfie Syndrome is leading to an empathy crisis among today's youth - teens today are 40 percent less empathetic than they were just a generation ago, and narcissism has increased 58 percent during that same period.
But there is a solution: Studies show that the antidote to Selfie Syndrome is empathy. And the good news is that empathy can actually be cultivated in children, starting even before they can talk. In UnSelfie, esteemed educator Dr. Michele Borba presents new and compelling research that explains how to impart this key skill to kids - whether it's teaching toddlers how to comfort one another or giving teens the tools to stand up to bullying - and why empathy paves the way for future happiness and success.
Caring about others isn't just about playing nice; it's a skill that's vital for children's mental health, leadership skills, and continued well-being, today and tomorrow. Dr. Borba's nine-step plan for raising successful, happy kids who also are kind, moral, courageous, and resilient provides a revolutionary new framework for learning empathy. Empathetic kids will thrive in the future, but the seeds of success can be planted today - one habit at a time.


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Customer Reviews

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Strongly Read

An emotional reading shouldn't hurt a book but it certainly did this one at the beginning. It came on so strong that it felt like it was preaching, on the verge of yelling and I almost quit. In the end the message is sound, the reading evens out, and it's a message worth taking to heart.
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- Jeremy

Some interesting insights

I think the narrator is clearly prof said all. But her voice changed so often that I could t focus on the book. Sometimes it was natural and others so affected, like she was trying to sound smart or from upper class New England.
Not trying to be mean.

Also, there is a conflict because we want to teach compassion but our kids also have to be tough in this world to make a living. Women have always been told they were good "helpers" and often go for low paying "helping" jobs. Women are the higher demographic on the poverty scale. So on the one hand, being kind and caring is key. On the other, girls also need to learn to take care of themselves.
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- H. Lambert

Book Details

  • Release Date: 06-07-2016
  • Publisher: Simon & Schuster Audio