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Publisher's Summary

This dating advice for women gives you the blueprint to the male mind so you can get what you want from a man...and not the other way around.
Guys get away with tons of stuff and you allow them to. This book will strip men of their power and render them helpless until you have gained what you desire through his actions. And then and only then will we "power him up" again.
I'm Gregg, a top dating coach out of Boston. Everyone's story is unique. You are unique. Men are unique. But your situation is not. I have seen it and fixed it a thousand times.
This book is your core resource to understanding how we think and a confidence-builder.
Here's a preview of what you'll learn:



The conveyer belt to manhood (the influences of our upbringing)
How we love in different ways and how these ways affect you
How men determine a keeper
The three things men require (they are not what you think)
The five mistakes woman always make and don't realize (this chapter alone will change your life)

©2014 Gregg Michaelsen (P)2015 Gregg Michaelsen
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By Deanna on 12-26-15

Good Reminders, Nothing Revolutionary

The information was well presented in an engaging, enthusiastic tone that was short of being hyper or strident. Filled with generalizations and clichéd stereotypes, but what self-help book can really avoids that? As readers, we are searching for general principles of what generally works, and so generalizations are a necessity of the genre.
Overall, if you are a woman that would enjoy some friendly and helpful dating advice from a male best - friend or a pseudo brother, you will enjoy this book.

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By michelle chidester on 11-08-15

Very insightful!

I read the other reviews before I bought this book. One of them stated they thought Greg was to self promoting. I, however, didn't feel that way. Greg even offers two more of his books for free! Overall, I found the book intriguing! He was so spot on with what's been going wrong with my past relationships that it was kinda scary! He gave great advise on what to do to change things up! If you're looking for a book to help you understand the man you already have, or if you are single and trying to find "that man", this is the book for you! It will totally change your mindset and give you what you need to know to be successful! Definitely worth it! Buy it! You won't regret it!

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By E Stone on 09-27-17

Very insightful, must read for any single ladies

I thought the book was very engaging and content very interesting and amusing.
It was great to hear a mans view on dating and relationships and certainly will change my behaviour especially during the early courtship days.
Although I believe in being authentic and natural I agree there are just certain points where women without intention and without realising it push men away.
Must read for single ladies.
Thank you Gregg

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By Amazon Customer on 01-13-18

best dating book I've ever read!

highly recommend this book that will help you understand men!
I definitely feel enlightened now that I've read it

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By Wanda on 10-11-17

One size dies not fit all

Easy to listen too although again I find another book aimed at the American market. Not all men are raised in the same culture and the writer did not take this into account. Some good points in
the book that would be of value to certain types of women. Wether they would take it on board though is the big question,

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By Anonymous User on 08-03-17

Really good

Light bulb moments and words from a modern man. Good tips for all ladies even those in relationships.

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