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Gavin de Becker is our nation's best-known expert on the prediction and management of violence. In The Gift of Fear, de Becker draws on his extensive expertise to shatter the myth that most violent acts are random and unpredictable, but rather usually have discernible motives and are preceded by clear warning signs. Through dozens of gripping stories from his own career and life, he unravels the complexities of violent behavior and details the pre-incident indicators (PINs) that can determine if someone poses a danger.
Learn to predict dangerous behavior and how to evaluate whether someone will use violence, to recognize survival signals that warn about risk from strangers, to rely on your intuition and move beyond denial, and to separate real from imagined danger.
Gavin de Becker's work has earned him three presidential appointments and a position on a congressional committee. He was twice appointed to the President's Advisory Board at the US Department of Justice, and he served two terms on the Governor's Advisory Board at the California Department of Mental Health. His 520-member consulting firm advises government agencies, universities, police departments, corporations, and media figures on the assessment of threats and hazards. Gavin de Becker & Associates maintains the world's largest library of threat and obsessive communications, consisting of more than 400,000 pieces of material.
©1996 Gavin de Becker (P)2017 Phoenix Books
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“A thorough and compassionate primer for people concerned about their safety and the safety of their families. This book not only empowers the reader, but also captures your attention and doesn’t let go until the end.” (Meryl Streep, actress)
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By Amazon Customer on 08-04-17

Valuable information

As a father, husband, and an assistant director of public safety at a private university, the information in this book is applicable in all areas

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By Amazon Customer on 09-28-17

Could save your life

I think caption on the front is all that needs to be said -- "this book may save your life".

The author is truly an expert in violence and its prevention. Excuse my cliche but everyone should read this book.

The author provides real world examples of violent situations with comprehensive breakdowns of the "pre incident indicators" and strategies to avoid them. Violence is not a random phenomenon as we are often told, it is predictable and often avoidable.

At the very least listen to the author on the Sam Harris podcast but you should really listen to the full book.

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By Rolie Jaye on 10-18-17

A necessary book, everyone should own/read

This book needs to be more widely known. US centric but still applies wherver in the world you are. I first heard the author on a podcast and it's a shame he does not narrate the book himself however there is nothing wrong with the narration in this book. This book was written on the late 90s so doesn't mention social media but the lessons are still urgently relevant. Going to give a few copies of this to friends and loved ones.

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By Loughlin on 09-02-17

Absolutely fascinating

I heard a very interesting interview with the author on the Waking Up podcast and decided this book deserved a listen. What a fascinating and engrossing subject and book. I hate saying books are life changing as it's such a tired cliche but I will say this - you will never consider domestic and social violence in the same way again. This book is both reassuring and alarming all at the same time. It's really an essential read and one of my favourite non-fiction reads of 2017 so far. Absolutely recommended.

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By Kitty on 10-13-17

The Gift of Fear

Comes highly recommended by the Podcast Team at True Crime Profile … (don't know if Jim Clemente and/or Laura Richards are colleagues), but they speak very well of Gavin de Becker and his book "The Gift of Fear".

I found the stories interesting, and cemented all *those things that one really should know* in my head, to the point where I think I really could let my *Fear* save my life. I think if most people I know who are intuitive, and read "The Gift of Fear", will be able to easily work with de Becker's ideas, and live safer, happier, calmer and more prosperous lives.

A fascinating subject. Spoiled, perhaps, a little by the odd timbre and intonation of the narrator. Nonetheless, a great book, and one that everyone should at least read once.

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