The Dance of Anger

  • by Harriet Lerner
  • Narrated by Harriet Lerner
  • 2 hrs and 58 mins
  • Abridged Audiobook

Publisher's Summary

While anger deserves our attention and respect, women still learn to silence our anger, to deny it entirely, or to vent it in a way that leaves us feeling helpless and powerless.In this vivid, engaging and eminently wise work, Dr. Lerner teaches women to identify the true sources of anger and to use anger as a powerful vehicle for creating meaningful and lasting change. The challenge of anger is at the heart of our struggle with intimacy, self-esteem, and joy. The Dance of Anger has inspired more "You changed my life" stories from both women and men than perhaps any other best seller on the American scene today.


What the Critics Say

"An inspirational message for all women....Like a family heirloom, it can be passed from generation to generation, as it is based on profound and lasting truths." (Peggy Papp, M.S.W., The Ackerman Institute for Family Therapy)


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I was very, very, disappointed in this book for three reasons. The first was that I expected a more comprehensive coverage of causes of anger (after reading the description provided) and tools for coping with anger. This book almost exclusively addressed only two very specific sources of anger, either spousal (or significant other) or adult-child/parental relationships. This would have been fine had the description specified such, and not made it appear to be much more entailing. There are so many, many other daily reasons for anger in a woman's every day life (interestingly, there is absolutely no mention whatsoever of mother/teen daughter relationship anger, which is one of the most explosive relationships women experience). Also, the book almost exclusively seems to makes the determination that anger felt by women is caused by non-assertion (I found this particularly annoying/insulting) and that if we would assert ourselves more, or stop being over-emotional, our anger could be more easily controlled. Finally, at the end of the book, you learn that you must buy the printed book to take the "tests" recommended to learn courses of action (this made me feel particularly "duped"). I would not buy recommend this book at all.
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- Lorraine

Dance of Anger

The audio missed to much of the book to be understood. We need an unabridged version of the book.
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- Ann

Book Details

  • Release Date: 12-16-1999
  • Publisher: HarperAudio