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The Courage to Be Disliked

By: Ichiro Kishimi, Fumitake Koga
Narrated by: Noah Galvin, Graeme Malcolm, January LaVoy
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The Courage to Be Disliked, already an enormous best seller in Asia with more than 3.5 million copies sold, demonstrates how to unlock the power within yourself to be the person you truly want to be.

Using the theories of Alfred Adler, one of the three giants of 20th-century psychology, The Courage to Be Disliked follows an illuminating conversation between a philosopher and a young man. The philosopher explains to his pupil how each of us is able to determine our own life, free from the shackles of past experiences, doubts, and the expectations of others. It's a way of thinking that is deeply liberating, allowing us to develop the courage to change and to ignore the limitations that we and other people have placed on us. The result is a book that is both highly accessible and profound in its importance. Millions have already read and benefited from its wisdom. This truly life-changing audiobook will help you declutter your mind of harmful thoughts and attitudes, helping you to make a lasting change, achieve real happiness, and find success.

©2018 Ichiro Kishimi, Fumitake Koga (P)2018 Simon & Schuster

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What an incredible book

Other reviewers aren’t exaggerating when they claim this book can change your life. I have just finished hearing it (the audiobook is a fabulous was to experience the conversation between the curious but frustrated youth and the wise and kind philosopher).
I already want to start it again from the beginning and I usually never do that with a book.
Buy it. Savour it. And start living it today. This isn’t self-help. This is true human wisdom.

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drawing a definitive line between you and the rest

this great book will definitely help the listener/reader achieve own goals. it draws a very clear line between yourself and everyone else. this will help you and whoever around you to live in peace and harmony. eventually everyone around you will benefit from it. I can recommend it enough for anyone who wants to unravel the questions about life and who we are.

one thing about the audio is, after a while, I started to predict the dialouge and to be honest, I got a little irritated by the narrator's voice. just my two cents.

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Good book!

Very deep and philosophical, perhaps a little more so than I had expected. But for those who are determined, who are searching, there is great insight within its pages.This format was probably much better, between a man and a youth, than had they gone the traditional route. It made it easier to stick with, and follow the story.

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Life changing

This book explained to me why I do not have a life I say I want. More importantly, it explains how to get it.

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Interesting

very interesting thoughts. pretty thought provoking, actually. The younger narrators voice kind of great it on me like fingernails on a chalkboard. That's why I gave the performance a little less than stellar. I'd like to learn more about this kind of psychology.

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Best Audiobook ever

This book is unbelievable it will change your life. A friend recommended this to me and i can't stop listening to it.

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Wow!!

Powerful. I finished and was ready to listen again. Thought provoking and life changing. On my top list for 2018.

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So good!

Loved it! Helps you realize that most things are not your problem. I enjoyed it

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Well Presented

While I am already familiar with Adler and these tenets, it was a good review and entertaining to listen to.

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Great, worth reading! (in spite of the narration)

Very interesting ideas to ponder and thoughts on thinking about thinking. Really enjoyed it! Will be looking for more books on Adlerian psychology.

The narration is split across 3 different voices for the dialog. I found it annoying at first but understand why they did it. The younger male voice is really annoying in particular. The content makes it worth dealing with though.

I'd recommend reading a physical book for this one over the audiobook because of the narration.

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