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Publisher's Summary

This is not a satire, but it takes a satirical approach to shedding light upon a very dark subject: narcissistic abuse.
It is intended to demonstrate to those struggling with codependency just how narcissists actually view them. By listening to their "play book", codependents should be able to recognize covert abuse and avoid its pernicious effects.
©2015 Jon Bet (P)2016 Jon Bet
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5 out of 5 stars
By cheyenne overman on 08-20-16

This audio download put me in control of my life!

If you could sum up The Codependent User's Manual: A Handbook for the Narcissistic Abuser in three words, what would they be?

Empowering, Enlightening, Savior

What was one of the most memorable moments of The Codependent User's Manual: A Handbook for the Narcissistic Abuser?

Learning what was going on in my life. I have been used by so many people. I had totally shut down, and now that I know what was happening and why, I can live a normal life, and sidestep those narcissists who seek me out on a continual basis and use me. My whole life has changed. The old saying, "This is the first day of your life?" This is definitely the first day of my life.

What’s an idea from the book that you will remember?

I plan to memorize the whole thing. I have pages on pages of notes... but I will listen to this daily. I will meditate on it, I will write about it. I will journal daily regarding my situation and how these people try to enter my life. They'll never be able to again. I am over all manipulation and will act now, in an empowered and self-beneficial way.

Any additional comments?

Thank you, John Bet, for restoring my sanity, my self-esteem, and my life. I have now the tools to live happily and powerfully for MYSELF! First time in my life and I am 63. I am more grateful than you could know! Thank you.

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4 out of 5 stars
By Amy Steele on 10-05-16

Excellent approach to understanding

It amazed me how at different times I heard things that most definitely were done to me, but other times where I was the perpetrator. It caused both shame and humbling and hope for identifying it before it happens again.

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5 out of 5 stars
By Enlightened One on 03-24-16

Excellent

An excellent description of how codependents are manipulated, used and entrapped by narcissists. kinda painful to listen to how the emotional abuse works on people who deep down just want love and respect

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5 out of 5 stars
By Veronica on 09-04-17

AMAZING & SPINE CHILLING

So so accurate, a must read for those ready to open their eyes to what is really going on!!

Thank you, thank you, thank you!

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