The ADHD Effect on Marriage
- Understand and Rebuild Your Relationship in Six Steps
- Narrated by: Laura Jennings
- Length: 8 hrs and 3 mins
- Unabridged Audiobook
- Release date: 03-14-17
- Language: English
- Publisher: Tantor Audio
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By Philip Ian Harrison on 07-07-17
ADHD Relationship Decoder
I purchased this book after a breakup of a 9 year relationship. I had also had a divorce many years ago. This book blew my mind.
Chapter after chapter, I found most references in this book applied to my long term relationships. So strongly in fact I was brought to tears over and over, sobbing. I was unaware my ADHD played such a huge negative role in my relationships. I was floored.
If you have ADHD or have a partner with ADHD you unequivocally NEED to listen to this book. It is an eye opener and hopefully it will set you and your partner on a road to recovery.
I love you Konstantza and hope you will have me back so we can have a new relationship with all of the joys we are supposed to have.
Love always and forever,
10 of 10 people found this review helpful
By JohnnyFi on 09-04-17
ADHD spouse here, I finally feel like I have a plan to salvage the little bit I have left in my marriage!
I am so grateful this book is Finally on audiobook. I have a hard copy and have had it for several years now. I've been married for nearly 11 years. The beginning of the book almost exactly described the downfall my marriage has been going through. The fact that Melissa so perfectly describes what I've been through and does so with logic and compassion. She does a wonderful job explaining in a way that keeps me from feeling inept as a spouse.
The concepts are simple and a great summary recap is at the back of the book. Thank you Melissa, I haven't felt this much hope and confidence that I can build a foundation within the ashes of my currently failing marriage.
If you are reading my review and either one or. Out of you have adhd in your marriage. This is a really solid plan that sounds like it's going to work!
Good luck, it's hard but I know it will be worth it to get my relationship and my family in a good place. :)
4 of 4 people found this review helpful
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By Marisa Heredia on 11-23-17
Wow, so much more than I was expecting
Spectacularly good, accurate, fair, eye-opening, and as touching as it was refreshing. It's clear Melissa has an abundance of knowledge on adhd and relationships, but what's great is that so many principles discussed can be applied to all relationships too.
Only downside was that sometimes the things that the 'adhd spouse' (I.e. husband) did were described as being an issue in the relationship due to his adhd, or things an adhd husband that affected his spouse was generalised to be because of his adhd/symptoms. However, I feel that many examples of the dissatisfaction by their non-adhd wife were more due to gender differences than given credit for.
As an adhd spouse and wife myself I actually related to the non-adhd wives quite often, and my non-adhd husband (and yes, I'm sure he doesn't have it too) has a lot of similarities with the 'adhd spouse', and I feel he probably just has that in common with them due to his gender.
For example I am not able to focus well off meds, but not paying my husband enough attention has never been an issue, if anything off meds I pay him too much attention. It likely comes easier to me as stereotypically females naturally prioritise family, loved ones and relationships higher, so to say adhd partners should prioritise paying their spouse more attention neglects to take this into consideration.
However, Melissa does preface the book by saying that most often it is non-adhd wives that want help regarding their adhd husbands so her books are tailored exactly to that.
The book is absolutely invaluable either way, regardless of who has adhd. Thank you!