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Publisher's Summary

This simple, straightforward guide to effective communication is for anyone who has ever wanted to “eat their words.”
Do you ever feel that your words produce the exact opposite effect of what you were hoping for - escalating tensions rather than solving problems? Author of Emotional Bullshit Carl Alasko has found that with the right guidance, anyone can learn effective communication skills. In Say This, Not That, Alasko presents readers with simple instructions for what to say...and what not to say. Accompanying each pair of statements is a brief discussion of what makes one so negative and destructive, and the other inviting of the kind of discussion needed. This book is the ultimate resource for anyone who longs to consistently say the right thing at the right time.
©2014 Carl Alasko Ph. D. (P)2014 Gildan Media LLC
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Critic Reviews

"This straightforward, easy-to-use guide will help you find the right words to say in the trickiest of situations—whether you're on a first date, navigating a conflict with a friend, or feeling frustrated at work." (Laurie Puhn, J.D., author of Fight Less, Love More)
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5 out of 5 stars
By Lisa N. on 06-04-17

Relevant to everyday life.<br />

Great situational examples. Easy to listen to. I liked the chapters relating to relationships, work.

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5 out of 5 stars
By J Woods on 02-22-18

Very valuable

In short - I would have to say This is be one of my most valuable books in my library

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