• Parenting Without Power Struggles

  • Raising Joyful, Resilient Kids While Staying Cool, Calm, and Connected
  • By: Susan Stiffelman
  • Narrated by: Susan Stiffelman
  • Length: 8 hrs and 36 mins
  • Unabridged
  • Release date: 05-13-13
  • Language: English
  • Publisher: Tantor Audio
  • 4.5 (186 ratings)

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Publisher's Summary

Do you ever find yourself asking...


How can you get your children to do their homework without meltdowns, threats, or bribes?
How can you have a drama-free morning where the kids actually get out the door in time for school?
How can you better manage your kids' screen time without making them want to hide what they're doing from you?
Family therapist Susan Stiffelman is here to help. While most parenting programs are designed to coerce kids to change, Parenting Without Power Struggles does something innovative, showing you how to help your children awaken their natural instincts to cooperate, rather than employing threats or bribes, which inevitably fuels their resistance. By staying calm and being the confident "captain of the ship" your child needs, you will learn how to parent from a place of strong, durable connection, and you'll be better able to help your kids navigate the challenging moments of growing up.
Drawing upon her successful practice and packed with real-life stories, Parenting Without Power Struggles is an extraordinary guidebook for transforming the day-to-day lives of busy parents - and the children they love.
©2010 Susan Stiffelman (P)2013 Tantor
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Critic Reviews

"Stiffelman's engaging work gives parents tools to navigate confidently in both calm and stormy family seas." (Publishers Weekly)
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By Nothing really matters on 10-13-13

Highly recommended.

This was a great book. It suggests a very caring and appealing parenting approach and the author's logic is hard to disagree with.

I have already strengthened the relationship I have with my son using this author's advice and that to me is a priceless reward for buying "Parenting Without Power Struggles". My only quibble is that while the advice in this book will probably work with less compliant, stronger-willed children like my daughter, it seemed to me that it would take a long time to have the effect I needed to happen ASAP.

I found "Setting Limits With Your Strong-Willed Child" worked quickly and effectively for my hard-case daughter, who was starting to drive me crazy. But, if I also follow the "Parenting Without Power Struggles" approach, I am sure that will deepen my relationship with her over the long-term. So, I'd recommend both books and both approaches, despite this author's distaste for time-outs and consequences.

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By Allison on 04-16-15

Truly helped

The voice of the author is so calming and the content goes beyond the surface into the heart of the issues and doesn't just offer support for the crazy moments but offers strategies to have a lifetime of connection and love with your children!

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