• Not Nice

  • Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, and Unapologetically Being Yourself
  • By: Dr. Aziz Gazipura PsyD
  • Narrated by: Dr. Aziz Gazipura PsyD
  • Length: 18 hrs and 2 mins
  • Unabridged
  • Release date: 11-30-17
  • Language: English
  • Publisher: The Center for Social Confidence
  • 4.5 out of 5 stars 4.6 (37 ratings)

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Publisher's Summary

Are you too nice?
If you find it hard to be assertive, directly ask for what you want, or say "no" to others, then you just might be suffering from too much niceness.
In this controversial book, world-renowned confidence expert, Dr. Aziz Gazipura, takes an incisive look at the concept of nice. Through his typical style, Dr. Aziz uses engaging stories, humor, and disarming vulnerability to cut through the nice conditioning and liberate the most bold, expressive, authentic version of you.
You'll discover how to:

Easily say "no" when you want to and need to
Confidently and effectively ask for what you want
Speak up more freely in all your relationships
Eliminate feelings of guilt, anxiety, and worry about what others will think
©2017 Dr. Aziz Gazipura, PsyD (P)2017 Dr. Aziz Gazipura, PsyD
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1 out of 5 stars
By Don on 02-06-18

Too Long

What disappointed you about Not Nice?

This audio is long, so long. Dr. Aziz seems to just ramble on and on. I feel the material could be condensed and made more applicable. More content doesn't mean better results. Its really the opposite. More content gives you analysis paralysis. Meaning you never take action because there is just too much to learn, remember, and apply. That's what happened to me. Find something that gets more to the point.

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5 of 6 people found this review helpful

2 out of 5 stars
By Sebastian Korwal on 02-26-18

Cultural attitudes get in the way of the message

The concept of this book is good, and some may find some valuable information and advice here. However, the author seems to have some cultural attitudes that conflict with those of us in the West. As a female, I found some of his comments, especially regarding his dating attitudes and later towards his wife, very condescending, even chauvinistic. His comments seem to stem from a male-dominated society where women are seen as less than, and "the weaker sex."

I tried to continue listening, but after awhile these chauvinistic attitudes were just too much. I couldn't keep listening to his condescension and barely contained arrogance. I found it offensive and off-putting, leaving me angry and unable to focus on the message of the book itself.

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6 of 8 people found this review helpful

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5 out of 5 stars
By Juaneezy on 01-16-18

Excellent Book

The best self help book I've come across dealing with social anxiety & confidence 5*

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1 of 2 people found this review helpful

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