Not 'Just Friends'

  • by Shirley P. Glass, Jean Coppock Staeheli
  • Narrated by Laural Merlington
  • 15 hrs and 10 mins
  • Unabridged Audiobook

Publisher's Summary

Good people in good marriages are having affairs. The workplace and the Internet have become fertile breeding grounds for “friendships” that can slowly and insidiously turn into love affairs. Yet you can protect your relationship from emotional or sexual betrayal by recognizing the red flags that mark the stages of slipping into an improper, dangerous intimacy that can threaten your marriage.


What the Critics Say

Not ‘Just Friends’ puts a new face on infidelity. The author, using clinical experience and current research, broadens its definition, causes, and means of resolution. I recommend it for anyone considering an affair, in an affair, or recovering from an affair.” (Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., author of Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples)
“A must-read for anyone who ever hopes to be happy in a long-term relationship.” (Pat Love, Ed.D., author of The Truth About Love and Hot Monogamy)


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Customer Reviews

Most Helpful

This book has changed my life. Amazing!

Where does Not 'Just Friends' rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

By far, the best self-help book that I've ever bought.

What did you like best about this story?

The book has changed my whole perspective on infedelity. I really CAN conquer infedelity and recuperate from it.

What about Laural Merlington’s performance did you like?

I wish I had even a 1/3 of her vocabulary! She's a walking dictionary which makes listening, much more attention-grabbing.

Did you have an extreme reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?

The whole book reached to the depths of my soul and gently pulled me up. I no longer feel guilt, blame, shame or defective. It's not me.

Any additional comments?

This book is for the cheater and the cheated. It's for before, during and after infedelity. A MUST read for anyone entering a relationship of any kind.

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Great book for both partners

Both my husband and I listened to this book individually, it helped to gain perspective for both of us in a nonconfrontational environment, I highly recommend it. I felt that it supported me and my feelings as the betrayed partner. It helped him to be honest about the emotional or physical affair and understand his vulnerability's, reasons for it, how to talk to me about it , and how it affects his partner. It offers insight on how to deal with the feelings and emotions and actions from both perspectives on both sides.
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- SunnySoCal "SunnySoCal"

Book Details

  • Release Date: 02-13-2012
  • Publisher: Brilliance Audio