• Men Chase, Women Choose

  • The Neuroscience of Meeting, Dating, Losing Your Mind, and Finding True Love
  • By: Dawn Maslar
  • Narrated by: Suzanne Elise Freeman
  • Length: 7 hrs and 4 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (107 ratings)

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Men Chase, Women Choose

By: Dawn Maslar
Narrated by: Suzanne Elise Freeman
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Love is one of our strongest biological drives, but it can be frustratingly elusive and misunderstood. Music, literature, and movies are filled with common folklore about love, and millions of TV viewers tune in to shows like The Bachelor and read the latest relationship tome with one simple hope: to uncover some nugget of mystic wisdom that will help them understand the exciting, addictive, insane experience called love.

Men Chase, Women Choose is the first book to offer cutting-edge research that explains how the brain works when two people first meet, start to date, fall in love, and then move into real long-term love. Maslar's unique approach brings together the latest and most relevant neurological, physiological, and biochemical research on the science of love while incorporating stories and examples of composite characters based on participants of her popular classes and seminars. She explains that love is actually neural activity as well as the presence or absence of certain neurotransmitters that bathe the brain, and it follows a precisely timed path of four easy-to-understand phases: the exciting norepinephrine-charged meeting phase; the addictive dopamine dating phase; the insane falling in love and losing your mind phase; and finally the safe, warm and wonderful true long-term love phase.

For the past decade Maslar has made it her mission to learn all she can about the science behind falling in love, including its evolutionary benefits. Her goal - and the purpose of this book - is to help men and women find and maintain love by understanding and applying the science behind it.

The bottom line? We actually can have long-lasting, nourishing, exciting, passionate love with little or no risk!

©2016 Dawn Maslar (P)2016 Vibrance Press

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I’m not going to lie, in the beginning it started off a bit slow. I was worried I wasted a credit. Later on in the book though she expresses a lot of valuable information that tells you scientific information on love which is EXACTLY what I was looking for. Very valuable book for any woman or man. Would recommend!

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Fascinating!!!

Makes so many things make so much sense just by understanding the science of falling in love. Great for men and women both in loving relationships, relationships in trouble, or single.

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Amazingly mind blowing!

As a successful dating coach myself, I absolutely loved the content of this book. We often forget that there is a biological element to dating as well as the emotional piece. Have you ever met someone who should be a perfect partner for you but you just weren’t interested? This could be the answer you’re looking for.

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JAW DROPPED

Can’t even count how many gems of scientific facts paired with real life scenarios this book gives. I’ve recommended it to so many women, i’m about to press restart to be honest!

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I never understood this before! Now I know.
This was an eye opener and I have so much better understanding of why getting into a sexual relationship or getting sexual too early in one and ‘hoping’ for a real relationship to come out of it was doomed to fail...
I love that she combines science into an applicable understanding!

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Up to date important informative information!

Love the information, very needed in this world of dating and keeping relationships! It opened my eyes!!!

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Wow this book explains mysteries

i enjoyef this book very much because i knew something was wrong with the way i date. Oh it seems parts of my brain are shut when dating. Okay ... now i know what it is and I can manage myself better

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Wish I had this book years ago!

I wish I had this book years ago; I might have saved myself some frustration and heartbreak.

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I'm ready

i learned so much with every chapter. i couldn't wait to finish. why do we attract who we attract? the chemical differences between men and women when we fall in love and all the phases of love are discussed in this easy to understand audio book

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Worth a second listen

Definition of truth: hard words to hear.
Changes your entire approach to mid-life dating, knowing that women MUST be the pursued and NOT the pursuer. It's just the way Mother Nature made us. Once you accept this fact, dating becomes a little less stressful.
A good read.

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