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Publisher's Summary

This self-guide, written by the author, attempts to clarify human and to provide understanding of the ways motives affect our daily leaves. The audiobook is aimed at young adults, parents, and professionals who are confused, even pessimistic, about finding the right ways to make and keep healthy relationships alive.
©2014 Margaret Normeshie (P)2015 Margaret Normeshie
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By Jennifer on 04-01-17

Deep

What made the experience of listening to Love It or Hate It the most enjoyable?

What made the book enjoyable was on how everything flows together. One thing ties with the other, so you don't get lost hearing the information.

What was one of the most memorable moments of Love It or Hate It?

The memorable moments were the self analyzing questions. It makes you think on what type of person you are. At times you have to think what moves you into doing something and this book does that. It makes you meditate in yourself on who you are as a person.

What does Betsy Grisard bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

Her tone of voice is smooth it makes the book some to life. When she asks the questions she gives the right amount of time for you to analyze your answer. It's just the way she talks makes the book enjoyable.

Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?

The book moved me since the beginning. It gives you something to think about in your own life. Some of the things mentioned you can recall them in a personal level. You can see the heart put into the book.

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By Sammy on 03-31-17

Understanding your motive.

There are many questions, we ask, consciously or sub-consciously about our lives. Why we do things or act in a certain way. This book was masterfully written, giving beautiful descriptives of actual people to explain. These people turned their lives around, after pinning down their motives, and they kept on going, to become exceptional human beings. Finding the secret of our motives inevitably leads us to discover our innermost reason for doing, what we do. Love It or Hate It: Motive Secret, what a marvellous book to write, how our motives influence our relationships, our fears and our love. I will recommend this book to anyone, regardless of whether they are successful, or merely starting out with their lives. It is a book, a guide to change one's life, to move into a positive direction. Understanding our motives makes for a journey of its own, with many pitfalls and deep personal gratitude.

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