It's Just a F***ing Date

  • by Greg Behrendt, Amiira Ruotola
  • Narrated by Greg Behrendt, Amiira Ruotola
  • 6 hrs and 40 mins
  • Unabridged Audiobook

Publisher's Summary

A fun and funny guide to dating from the New York Times best-selling authors of It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken and He's Just Not That Into You.
Why does dating have to be so hard? It doesn’t! Stop trying to out-game the system and relax. It's Just a Fucking Date presents the tools, not the rules, for bringing back the art of the date. The ordeals of 21st-century dating, from online dating and hooking up to pulling the plug when it isn’t working, will soon be easy to navigate. With tips to define what is and isn’t a date, how to get asked out, and setting your own dating standards, dating won’t seem old-fashioned, it will be fun. Best-selling authors Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola return to the minefield of modern relationships with this revised and updated edition.


What the Critics Say

"The book is jam-packed with straight-talking tips on how to bag your man, and quite frankly, we can’t put it down." (The Sun)


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Customer Reviews

Most Helpful

Profound! Entertaining! Life-changing! Funny!

Would you listen to It's Just a F***ing Date again? Why?

I've listened over and over again to ensure their message, "It's Just a f**ing Date" is tattooed on my brain. Greg and Amira hilariously explain and model every step a gal should take to that right man. Their easy methods for nudging a man into a pursuer come to life especially when Amira acts them out. Greg, her husband, knows how guys really think. He also knows how women tend to idealize love and give into their emotions too quickly freaking men out. He sincerely wants us to act in our own best interest and speaks as if he is an older wiser loving brother. Anyway, men are meant to pursue. This book teaches how to light the trail for the right man to catch us.

What other book might you compare It's Just a F***ing Date to and why?

Their style is unique and magical as they switch narration back and forth making it feel like a personal conversation. It compares in tone to "Why Your Not Married Yet," and "You Are A Badass."

What does Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

If I had just read this book, I'd miss the personable real tone that brings their message to life.

What did you learn from It's Just a F***ing Date that you would use in your daily life?

I've already used the lessons to improve my life. I've come away renewed and clear about who I am on my dating journey and how to make sure I end up with a great guy who wants a great relationship with me. I now know to never settle for a 'hang-out" with a guy but how to easily get asked out while keeping my worth in tact. Just yesterday, I controlled an urge to send an emotional text. It wasn't easy because I was pretty upset, but the amazing thing is: today I was rewarded. He contacted me and was none the wiser that I had had a mini break-down over my own personalizing perception of really- nothing. I'm also proud of pulling myself out of that emotional pit by following the wisdom in this book.

Any additional comments?

I hope that this message is heard by all especially my daughter.Thank you Greg and Amira! You really get it. Thank you.

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- susan warren

Good book, but for ladies only!

Whether it was a lack of me reading or understanding, I purchased this audiobook and jumped in. While it's interesting, it's extremely geared towards helping women - men won't get nearly as much of a benefit from the book, but it still has some entertaining ideas and it is well read.
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- Danny Santoro "Lover of most things fiction."

Book Details

  • Release Date: 12-11-2013
  • Publisher: Audible Studios