Ep. 4: The Addict : Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

  • by Esther Perel
  • Narrated by Esther Perel
  • Series: Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel
  • 0 hrs and 38 mins
  • Radio/TV Program

Publisher's Summary

[Contains mature themes] They’re grandparents, with a 40-year love story and a stable, happy marriage. But one of them had quite a few secrets. Esther gives them some tools to navigate and support each other's experiences.
Step into the office of renowned relationship therapist and TED Talk sensation Esther Perel, and listen in as she counsels couples in crisis due to infidelity, sexlessness, loss, and disconnection. The result? Astonishing insights on how they can make love work – and takeaways for you on ways to repair and restore your own relationships.
About Esther:
Esther Perel is recognized as one of today’s most insightful and provocative voices on personal and professional relationships. A celebrated psychotherapist who has helmed a private practice in New York City since 1983, she has over three decades of experience navigating the intricacies of love and desire.


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Brutally Honest

Holy sh*t this one was hard to listen to. I am in awe of this couple. Their relationship has been so badly damaged, and yet they are able to keep sight of the parts of it which are worth holding on to, and to try to fight for those parts and rebuild. I think to myself that I would not have the fortitude to even attempt to work my way through something like this, and yet Esther Perel manages to guide these people toward a level of compassion that is deeper than most people's pride would allow.

As I listen to the session unfold my own instinctual anger, outrage, and sympathetic pain begin to give way to empathy and humanity, and I start to ask questions:
-What does it take to be the kind of person who is willing to even try to forgive a betrayal like this?
-How do you hold onto the conviction that the love in a relationship is real despite actions that seem to invalidate that love?
-If someone does not behave this way out of a desire to destroy, then what kind of trauma can cause them to act like that?
-How do you work up the nerve to start taking responsibility for hurting another human being so terribly?
-How do you lean on your best friend for help when they are the very person who is causing your pain?
-How do you stand up to criticism from your friends and family for attempting to salvage your relationship instead of walking away?
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- Nicole

I'm addicted.....

....to this series. Esther Is brilliantly insightful. I thought the one-time sessions would leave me with a cliffhanger, but at the end, I always think "I got it!" Well done.
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- Senta Burton

Book Details

  • Release Date: 05-26-2017
  • Publisher: Audible Originals