Many people don't realize it, but a person can become devastatingly emotionally damaged after suffering from bullying and victimization from one or more narcissistic abusers. Women who are prone to be with abusive, narcissistic men often had abusive or emotionally absent fathers. These women are attracted to the alpha male. They are vibrant, alive, motivated, nurturing, and loving. They are the prime target for the hungry needs-starved narcissist.
Many of these women suffer significantly when they try to extract themselves from this violent and emotionally volatile relationship. They know that they stand to lose everything that they have by walking away from the relationship. Most women who get out have lost their home, their money, their children, their jobs, and their income. They are left by the side of the road, bruised and battered. They are left wondering what the hell just hit them, and why did they deserve something so wretched in their lives.
Why the narcissist demeans, devalues and destroys
The narcissist is one of the most temperamental and difficult personalities on the earth. He thinks that the whole world is out to get him. He often has anxiety and paranoia issues that make him compulsively check and lock everything because he is afraid that someone else will try taking what is rightly his. He has been denied in his childhood, thus he refuses to be denied any longer. He feels that he is entitled to get what's owed to him, and he will spend the rest of his life collecting what is his.
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