- The New Brain Science of Contentment, Calm, and Confidence
- Narrated by: Rick Hanson
- Length: 7 hrs and 40 mins
- Unabridged Audiobook
- Release date: 10-08-13
- Language: English
- Publisher: Random House Audio
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Why is it easier to ruminate over hurt feelings than it is to bask in the warmth of feeling loved? Your brain was wired in such a way when it evolved, primed to learn quickly from bad experiences, but not so much from the good ones. It's an ancient survival mechanism that turned the brain into Velcro for the negative, but Teflon for the positive.
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By Karen on 06-04-14
Creating & savoring positive experiences
In "Hardwiring Happiness," Rick Hanson, Ph.D. provides an easy and actionable "recipe" for giving positive experiences greater weight to enable an ongoing sense of peace and contentment. I'd learned of Dr. Hanson's books based on my interest in meditation and his articles about the benefits of using meditation in his psychology practice. I chose to listen to this book when I realized I'd become so focused on worries about loved ones' health issues that I wasn't appreciating happy events as much as I would normally.
Dr. Hanson's approach focuses on identifying (or creating) positive experiences and then extending and reinforcing the good feelings those experiences evoke. Wait, isn't this just taking the time to smell the roses? Absolutely, but it's all too easy to overlook stopping to savor positive experiences when one is feeling especially busy or preoccupied with day to day concerns... and not taking the time to savor positive experiences actually reduces one's ability to cope with stresses as they arise. I listened to the audio version in order to benefit from the guided meditations included within, and also picked up the kindle ebook as a handy reference. The author narrated the audio version and I found listening to his observations helpful in reinforcing the concepts he shared.
I recommend "Hardwiring Happiness" to anyone who feels they aren't appreciating life's gifts as much as they'd like, and wants to take effective steps to more fully savor the good.
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By julie on 12-09-13
Like a therapy session while I'm on the move.
Would you listen to Hardwiring Happiness again? Why?
Yes, I would and am listening to it again. I went through the book quickly the first time to get a feel for if this book could be helpful to me. Now, I am going back to more carefully take in the information. I can imagine going back over parts even a 3rd and 4th time in the future.
What was one of the most memorable moments of Hardwiring Happiness?
The general concept of taking in positive experiences, although it sounds and is simple, in today's world, it does not come automatically. Knowing that taking in experiences can benefit my brain and my well being gives me incentive to make the effort.
Any additional comments?
I heard the auther speak on a Jillian Michaels podcast. I found his line of thinking interesting. It is what prompted me to sign up for audible.com. But, before purchasing this audio book, I read a few of the reviews which sounded quite negative. It gave me pause before ordering. I'm glad that I gave it a try despite the negative reviews. The information is valuable to me in my life at this time. -- Not ignoring the bad, but more fully appreciating the good. Taking just a few extra seconds in my day to take in the positive and make it a part of me.
22 of 25 people found this review helpful