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How We Love

By: Milan Yerkovich, Kay Yerkovich
Narrated by: Adam Verner, Sarah Zimmerman
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Identify the source of missteps in your marriage - and learn exactly what you can do about them!

Tired of arguing with your spouse over the same old issues? Longing for a marriage with less conflict and more intimacy? Struggling under a load of resentment? In How We Love, relationship experts Milan and Kay Yerkovich draw on the powerful tool of attachment theory to show how your early life experiences created an "intimacy imprint" - an underlying blueprint that shapes your behavior, beliefs, and expectations of all relationships, especially your marriage. They identify four types of injured imprints that combine in marriage to trap couples in a repetitive dance of pain. The groundbreaking principles and practical, solution-focused tools in this book will equip you to...

  • Identify the imprints disrupting your marriage
  • Understand how your love style impacts your mate
  • Break free of negative patterns that hinder your relationship
  • Enhance your sexual intimacy
  • Create the deeper, richer marriage of your dreams

Discover the truths that have transformed countless relationships - including the authors' marriage - so you can stop stepping on each other's toes and instead be swept along by the music of a richer, more passionate relationship.

©2016 eChristian (P)2016 eChristian

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loved it

not only improved how I look at him and my marriage but myself..... love this boom

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Awesome book!

One of the best books about marriage and relationship I have read!!! Absolutely brilliant... Check it out: )

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good information

really good information, but knowing that I'm an avoider I find it hard to use some of these tools. it's my time to grow. thank you.

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A must read book .. life changer

I wish I could find this book before I got married... if you think to get marry or already navigating marriage and you want to maintain a quality life & enjoy your marriage read this book and apply it .. I guaranteed you’ll see your spouse & people in a different way. Narrators did a great job!

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A must read for all human kind

Loved it. I was looking to change my partner and it changed me. Perfect gift for couples and self realization.

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Awesome

This book is so awesome. It breaks down to everyday terminology. The vignettes were appropriate. My wife and I have read the book and this time we listened to the audio. This is a must read for couple no matter what level their marriage are at.

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Eye Opening

This books has amazing content that is relevant to marital relationships. The information given has a the opportunity to change you for better if put into practice. The examples given makes it very easy to relate and allows to self examine.
I will read it again to deepen into the conversation and the content of it.

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Direct and to the point

This book is necessary if you are in ANY relationship! It is A MUST read!

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Eye opening book

Recommend this book to everyone not only married couples. So much great information to take away and self reflect on. Listening to this book really change my perception of myself and my husband. Learninig why we act certain way and how to find solutions.

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Helps understand the dynamics in relationships

Excellent to understand the dynamics in relationships as it relates to childhood upbringing and attachment experiences. It provides tools for correcting destructive core patterns.

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