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Publisher's Summary

Updated edition includes bonus chapter
Winner of the 2017 Audie Award for Humor

"A truth-riot of a book!" (Shonda Rhimes) New York Times best seller Number-one Washington Post best seller Redbook "20 Books by Women You Must Read This Fall" "17 New Best New Books to Read This Fall" BookRiot "100 Must-Read Hilarious Books" Goodreads Choice Awards Nominee Now in development with Shondaland and ABC Signature Studios as a cable television series
Comedian, activist, and hugely popular culture blogger at Luvvie Ajayi serves up necessary advice for the masses in this hilarious book of essays.
With over 500,000 readers a month at her enormously popular blog,, Luvvie Ajayi is a go-to source for smart takes on pop culture. I'm Judging You is her debut book of humorous essays that dissects our cultural obsessions and calls out bad behavior in our increasingly digital, connected lives. It passes on lessons and side-eyes on life, social media, culture, and fame, from addressing those terrible friends we all have, to serious discussions of race and media representation, to what to do about your fool cousin sharing casket pictures from Grandma's wake on Facebook.
With a lighthearted, razor sharp wit and a unique perspective, I'm Judging You is the handbook the world needs, doling out the hard truths and a road map for bringing some "act right" into our lives, social media, and popular culture. It is the Do-Better Manual.
©2016 Lovette Ajayi (P)2016 Macmillan Audio
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Critic Reviews

"Ajayi shares her observations of public shortcomings in a brash, honest manner that gives listeners the feeling we're on the other end of a long call from a venting best friend. Her spirited explanations and detailed examples will leave you feeling better about your choices." ( AudioFile)
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By Amazon Customer on 10-18-16

I have NEVER laughed so hard

This book was like hanging out with my friend. I found myself nodding and clapping, inspired and jovial. I can't wait to buy a physical copy of this book so I can share it with EVERYONE!

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By Shalander on 10-25-16

doing better

i loved this book it was wonderful, cant wait for the next one!! thanks to my internet cousin Evelyn for referring me. Great Great Book!!!

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8 of 8 people found this review helpful

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By Victor Femi on 03-26-17

modern, down to earth, enjoyable to read

...but i must sound the *corny jokes alert*

besides the occasional corny jokes which were like speed bumps on a highway, this book was such a good read/listen. Luvvie dealt with contemporary social issues on our minds without any byte of chill. This book will be your inner "side eye" when you're about to commit the typical social (and social media) gaffes.

Thanks for speaking out Luvvie.

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By H. L. Clark on 01-16-18

Loved it!

Funny, poignant and thought provoking. Luvvie is hilarious but also talks a lot of sense!

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By Jacob on 01-10-17

Awesomely true, unfortunately, love to hear you

Luvvie, you keep on judging sister, I agree with 97%, just not on anal bleaching.

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By Amy on 11-14-16


very funny, i doesn't always agree but i did enjoy. also apparently i need to write more words...

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