How to Win Friends and Influence People - by Dale Carnegie: Book Summary
- Narrated by: Dean Bokhari
- Length: 32 mins
- Unabridged Audiobook
- Release date: 01-06-16
- Language: English
- Publisher: FLASHBOOKS, LLC
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Financial success, Carnegie believed, is due 15 percent to professional knowledge and 85 percent to "the ability to express ideas, to assume leadership, and to arouse enthusiasm among people." He teaches these skills through underlying principles of dealing with people so that they feel important and appreciated. He also emphasizes fundamental techniques for handling people without making them feel manipulated.
Carnegie says you can make someone want to do what you want them to by seeing the situation from the other person's point of view and "arousing in the other person an eager want." You learn how to make people like you, win people over to your way of thinking, and change people without causing offense or arousing resentment. For instance, "let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers," and "talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person." Carnegie illustrates his points with anecdotes of historical figures, leaders of the business world, and everyday folks.
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By ProMan on 10-22-17
Great review; full version will drive the points home better though
This was great, but I wouldn’t recommend only reading/listening to this review if you really want to drive the lessons from the book home.
The full version is full of useful anecdotes that do just that, and that was helpful for me- a naturally introverted person with little natural social acuity.
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