- On Parents & Children, Exes & Excess, Death & Decay, & a Few of My Other Favorite Things
- Narrated by: Loudon Wainwright III
- Length: 10 hrs and 28 mins
- Unabridged Audiobook
- Release date: 09-05-17
- Language: English
- Publisher: HighBridge, a Division of Recorded Books
Regular price: $24.49
Buy Now with 1 Credit
Buy Now for $24.49
There is probably no singer-songwriter who has so blatantly inserted himself into his songs about parents, grandparents, children, siblings, and wives. As he puts it in "So Many Songs": It's taken so long to finally see / My songs about you are all about me. The songs can be laugh-out-loud funny, but they also can cut to the bone. In his memoir, Wainwright continues to emphasize the personal. He details the family history his lyrics have referenced and the fractured relationships in the Wainwright family throughout generations: the alcoholism, the infidelities, the competitiveness - as well as the closeness, the successes, and the joy. Wainwright reflects on the experiences that have influenced his songwriting, including boarding school, the music business, swimming, macrobiotics, sex, incarceration, and something he calls Sir Walter Raleigh syndrome.
The book is very much about being a son - a status that dominates many of Wainwright's songs. But it is also about being a parent, a brother, and a grandfather. Wainwright's song lyrics are represented throughout the book, amplifying his prose and showing the connections between the songs and real life. He also includes excerpts and selections from his father's brilliant LIFE magazine columns - and, in so doing, reestablishes his father as a major essayist of his era. A funny and insightful meditation on family, inspiration, and art, Wainwright's memoir will thrill fans, listeners, and anyone who appreciates the intersection of music and life.
Customer ReviewsMost Helpful
By Jeff Bernhardt on 10-29-17
Best ever book for listening
Loudon is the reader and sings his lyrics accompanied by his guitar. He really takes full advantage of this medium. His story takes us on a fun recent history trip. Very entertaining
1 of 1 people found this review helpful
By Lady Reader on 02-06-18
More AND Less of what you might expect...
If you are a Wainwright fan, you know pretty much what your in for here as you've been hearing about these topics for decades now in practically all of his songs. There's plenty of added detail about the numerous and complicated relationships throughout his life, and while he does cop to his share of the blame he never really seems to admit to all the damage his reckless and selfish behavior most likely caused those he was closest to. Even sadder, at 70 plus years now -with all that water under the bridge and after all the self reflection - you get the feeling there's still not that much joy in his life.
In regard to more practical matters, the book is more serious than funny, so if you re a fan of his lighter, more humorous work this might not be for you. If you knew his dad wrote but never read any of his work, there are some great pieces included here and they are beautifully read by an admiring son. The musical performances - although often incomplete and somewhat bland compared to the originals - are interwoven nicely and often provide excellent context ( not to mention a welcome walk down memory lane for his long time listeners).
All in all, a nice job and one that benefits greatly from being read by its author.