How to Be Married

  • by Jo Piazza
  • Narrated by Jo Piazza
  • 9 hrs and 44 mins
  • Unabridged Audiobook

Publisher's Summary

Everyone tells you marriage is hard, but no one tells you what to do about it.
At age 34 Jo Piazza got her romantic-comedy ending when she met the man of her dreams on a boat in the Galápagos Islands and was engaged three months later. But before long Jo found herself riddled with questions. How do you make a marriage work in a world where you no longer need to be married? How does an independent, strong-willed feminist become someone's partner - all the time?
In the tradition of writers such as Nora Ephron and Elizabeth Gilbert, award-winning journalist and nationally best-selling author Jo Piazza writes a provocative memoir of a real first year of marriage that will forever change the way we look at matrimony.
A travel editor constantly on the move, Jo journeys to 20 countries on five continents to figure out what modern marriage means. Throughout this stunning, funny, warm, and wise personal narrative, she gleans wisdom from matrilineal tribeswomen, French ladies who lunch, Orthodox Jewish moms, Swedish stay-at-home dads, polygamous warriors, and Dutch prostitutes.
Written with refreshing candor, elegant prose, astute reporting, and hilarious insight into the human psyche, How to Be Married offers an honest portrait of an utterly charming couple. When life throws more at them than they ever expected - a terrifying health diagnosis, sick parents to care for, unemployment - they ultimately create a fresh understanding of what it means to be equal partners during the good and bad times. Through their journey, they reveal a framework that will help the rest of us keep our marriages strong, from engagement into the newlywed years and beyond.


What the Critics Say

"Newlyweds and couples looking to jump-start a foundering relationship will find Piazza's analysis of marriage useful, amusing, and engaging." (Kirkus)
"Whether she's finding hygge in Denmark or climbing Kilimanjaro, Piazza writes with candid honesty, wit, and humor. This quick-paced and relatable book will be immensely helpful for longtime and newly married people alike." (Booklist)
"Piazza's insights for creating a successful marriage from the very beginning provides life-changing lessons for anyone getting married or considering marriage." (John Gray PhD, the number one New York Times best-selling author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus)


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Customer Reviews

Most Helpful

Wonderful advice, like talking to your

well traveled friend and I loved it! I too didn't have good role models for marriage or family. I moved away from home long ago and somehow thought "my prince" was a messy fairytale trick. Then I met him in London on a trip and my world changed fast. I realized I had no idea how anything past a "boyfriend" material is supposed to be handled. Terrified my inner "warrior princess" that doesnt understand marriage could help me bungle this. I was nervous I was missing something and had no one to ask (embarrassing). This book was calming to me. I am not alone. The advice is priceless! Take it or leave it but the different views on age old problems is worth every minute.
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- OhhLala


i love everything about this book. i could relate to more than half the stories in here and have taken some of the advice. trying something new has become a habit and way of life.
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- Chelsea

Book Details

  • Release Date: 04-18-2017
  • Publisher: Random House Audio