We Are Never Meeting in Real Life

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5 out of 5 stars
By Salimah J. Perkins on 07-06-17

The perfect balance of humour and pathos

I never wanted this book to end. There were several legitimate spit takes as I listened (coffee is my constant listening companion) and so many places where I absolutely connected with the anecdotes and found myself thinking "me too!" Thank God this woman and her perfect deadpan delivery exist and that she wrote this wonderful book. I will read or listen to anything she writes.

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18 of 18 people found this review helpful

5 out of 5 stars
By Maggie O. on 07-11-17

The best

Literally so so funny, true and hilarious. Deeply touching and personal. Also just laughing out load through the whole thing. Thank you for this book.

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6 of 6 people found this review helpful

5 out of 5 stars
By Amanda on 07-04-17

Soda water forever

I laughed, I cried, I love Helen Keller. Seriously. I wish there were more authors like Irby.

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5 of 5 people found this review helpful

5 out of 5 stars
By ramon on 06-27-17


I laughed out loud multiple times throughout the book! highly recommend for those that don't get easily offended! she's real, she's honest and she's hilarious!

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4 of 4 people found this review helpful

1 out of 5 stars
By Anthony Robertson on 11-20-17

There, But For The Grace Of God

This is the reality television of essay writing.

The author takes self deprecation to its extreme, so much so that it made me uncomfortable. I was looking for a companion to sit with me in my ivory tower (John Jeremiah Sullivan). Instead, I was pulled down to her painfully real version of modern day life, complete with spoken LOLs and emojis.

This book almost killed me.

I am saying this as a nearly-rabid fan of Mindy Kaling, who exposes the worst of herself as well, but does so in a way I find inexplicably charming. Irby shows off her grossness in the same way Sarah Silverman does in Bedwetter, but Silverman is proud of who she is, and doesn't suck the reader into a self-shame party.

This book is too real for me, and I see too many of my own bad qualities in Irby. I don't hate you, Author. And I don't think you're "literally the worst". I think you tried to self-satirize, in an effort to show me that it's okay to be me. But the "I hate myself", completely naked approach was too much for me.

I got it. I just can't defend it.

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30 of 38 people found this review helpful

5 out of 5 stars
By Sarah Doran on 06-24-17


I love your words Samantha Irby. Thank you for spelling out your mother fucking truth. You give me courage and make me laugh. I'm so grateful for you. I'm sorry for all you've been through. I'm impressed with all you've become.

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4 of 5 people found this review helpful

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